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Step two, and the one that actually changes a child's state.
Sit close. One slow hug. Then three slow breaths, together — you do them out loud so they have something to follow. You are not instructing them to calm down; you are doing it beside them and letting them copy, which is the only version that works under five.
It takes under a minute. It's the shortest step and the one people skip.
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